Where I’ve Been

Traveling, that’s where. Frantically trying to keep up with everything on my to-do list, while also taking time to back away from the computer. Attempting to make some money and start a couple of businesses. And getting ready for a big event in December (teaser).

I’ve been swamped and a little “off” and overbooked, but it’s all good. Especially the travel part. You know me — I love to travel. There’s a reason travel has its own category on this blog. Rather than being just another stressor for me, travel is my respite in the midst of chaos.

Last weekend I went to Denver for the first time to speak at Bloggy Boot Camp. LOVED IT! Granted, I was only downtown, but it sure was clean and pretty. I stayed at the Hyatt Regency Denver (fantastic and modern) and ate at The Corner Office (yummy and chic). I can’t believe in all the time I lived out West I never went to Denver. My quick weekend there made me miss the high desert, the open skies and the mountain ranges very much.

As much as I love the wild, untamed countryside, I also love a big city. I love the energy, the crowds and the never-ending list of things to do. That’s why I’m glad my travels in the past month have also taken me to Chicago twice. As far as cities go, Chicago is pretty primo. It’s a manageable size, easy to navigate, very clean, incredibly friendly in that Midwestern way, and chock full of great restaurants, attractions and shopping.

While in Chicago, I had a chance to stay at another Hyatt Regency. Now, me and chain hotels don’t usually mix. And I’m also not a huge fan of big convention hotels (unless they’re in Vegas). So all this Hyatt business was a little out of my comfort zone. I wouldn’t necessarily choose to stay there, all things considered. But my good friend Lisa somehow met this gal named Jennifer and somehow introduced us on Twitter and it somehow turns out that Jennifer does social media for Hyatt Chicago and, well, that’s what I used to do for hotels, and she looked cute in her picture and all, so when she invited me to stay with them, I couldn’t say no.

And boy, am I glad I didn’t.

To say the Hyatt Regency Chicago surprised me is an understatement. It was nothing like I expected. Big? Yes. Convention-y? Yes. Lots of business travelers? Yes. But despite all that, it was pretty much perfect. Even though I was a solo female traveler there on a mix of business and pleasure, it was exactly what I needed. Its location is beyond perfect. For me, part of the appeal of a city is being able to walk and use public transportation. I walked pretty much everywhere I wanted to go from the hotel, because it was right smack in the middle of everything.

The hotel is the “A.” I’ve marked all the other pertinent stuff for you. Also, it’s just a short (seven minute or so) walk from the State/Lake CTA station. And it’s connected to the Pedway (which is my new obsession).

I also like the decor in the hotel rooms. Granted, both times I stayed I was in the West Tower (the hotel is so big it has two towers on two blocks), so it could be that this tower has more up-to-date rooms. But they’re lovely. There’s a kind of mid-century modern (think orange and brown) slash Bauhaus kind of thing going on with the decor. The lines are clean, and the hardware is glass, metallic and sleek white porcelain. Best part? No hotel florals! There’s no ugly chintz bedspread or curtains or tacky patterned carpet to distract you from the stains and cigarette burns. And the bedding is soft, crisp white linens, as is the popular norm these days. (FYI — they have special rooms, called Respire rooms, for people with allergy issues.)

Here’s a picture of one of my rooms:

And this picture doesn’t do it justice, because I am a lousy photographer. Here’s the desk area:

I had plenty of room to work and make a mess of my stuff.

And the chair in the window was my dream. You can’t really tell from my terrible pic, but it’s a kind of pearlized leather fabric. I sat in it to read and drink my wine and eat chocolate covered strawberries and pretend I was a famous glamazon.

The second time I stayed, I got a gorgeous junior suite with a view over the river. I looked right across at the NBC building and the Marilyn Monroe statue. As I watched the NBC news each morning, they’d do a live weather shot on the plaza. I’d look at the shot and see people walking by on the TV. Then I’d look out the window and see the same people. It was like some alternate dimension where I was an omniscient goddess! One who sits in pearlized chairs and sips Evian from a minibar!

I couldn’t find a picture of the suite I had on their website, but I did see these pics of a couple of other suites. WOWZAS.

In case you didn’t look closely, that’s a pool table in that last picture. Yes, it is.

But let’s forget the pretty for a minute. I’ve stayed at some beautiful properties in my life that I will never return to. Why not? Because their service sucks. And to be honest, I didn’t expect the service at a Hyatt to be that great, either. I expected it to be, well, corporate-ish. You know, that kind of bare-minimum politeness that fits the script employees learn during training. The kind of service that gives you just enough to keep you from complaining, but not enough to make you want to come back.

In other words, that large chain hotel type of service.

Um, so, as much as it pains me to say it…

I was wrong.

I have been blown away by the consistently amazing service at the Hyatt in Chicago (and the one in Denver, too). And it’s hard for me to put my finger on what it is exactly that I love. It may be the genuine smiles and greetings. I can spot a fake one a mile away. It may be how the housekeepers in the hall each morning stopped what they were doing to have a little chat and ask how my trip was. Or maybe it was the driver who sprang into action to drive me to the airport and chatted with me about how to take better pictures (that was after these bad shots, I swear).

What it boils down to is this: In a hotel with over 2000 rooms, the staff made me feel as if I were the only guest there. And that is priceless. That is what good service is all about.

I can’t wait to go back to the Hyatt. I’m praying I find lots of clients in Chicago so I have an excuse ot go there for business every month. But even if I don’t, I’m going back for a family vacation. Nick and I once spent a romantic weekend in Chicago before we were married, when we still lived in separate countries, so it has a little sentimental value. Also, my boys love a big city (and public transportation) as much as I do. And Jennifer was telling me about all these awesome holiday-related events in Chicago toward the end of the year. Of course there’s the parade and all the lights on the Magnificent Mile. But the Christkindlmarket looks so cool, too. I could probably spend a couple of days shopping and eating at this festival.

Also, I think one of the blogging conferences needs to be held there. It’s perfect — great destination, easy to get to, massive convention space, plenty of rooms for everyone and affordable room rates (much more so than NYC or SoCal). Hello, BlogHer, I’m talking to you…

So here’s my disclaimer — Jenn hooked me up with a room before she even met me. She did it before she knew I was a hotel snob, and before she read my blog and knew how brutally honest I am. She’s either crazy or gutsy or very confident in the product she offers. I’m going with the third choice. Because while she hooked me up, I was under no obligation to say gushingly nice things about this hotel. I would never lie to you, dear readers. Lie to my kids about whether or not we have cookies in the house? Abso-freaking-lutely. But lie to you about a hotel? I can’t do it. It’s against my code of ethics.

But you can get the hook up, too. First, I highly suggest you follow the Hyatt Regency Chicago on Facebook and Twitter. They have all kinds of special offers and discounts and contests there. Then I suggest you book a room with this link. It’s a special one just for Freaky Perfect people, like us. If you do, you’ll get a discount off your room rate and your parking (and big city parking prices are one of the bad things about a bustling metropolis).

And please let me know if you ever do head to Chicago, or if you’ve been. I want to know what you like to do, see, eat, etc. while you’re there. I’m going to do a post soon with some touristy pictures (bad ones, of course), and I’d love to hear what you love about the Windy City!

 

 

It’s The Little Things That Make Me Happy

I love washcloths. I do not like poufs or loofahs or sponges. Only a square piece of terry cloth can make me feel clean and fresh. My washcloth obsession is so well-known that my dear mother-in-law, who does not use them in her household, bought some for me so that when I visit her, I can shower in the manner I see fit.

I also love makeup. Lots of makeup. Dark eyeliner. Layers of mascara. Bright lipstick. Foundation applied with a trowel. Love it!

But when you combine washcloths with lots of makeup, you usually get a big mess. You get stains that no laundry detergent can ever remove. Because of this, I even go so far as to use what I call “trash cloths.” Trash cloths are cheap white washcloths I buy in bulk that I use for removing my makeup. (Got the idea from my mom — thanks Mom!) I use white ones because I can bleach them but also because I get some kind of odd satisfaction in seeing all that gunk come off my face at the end of the day. Yes, I’m weird. I’ll never contest that.

So when I go to a hotel or stay at someone’s house, I always feel so uncomfortable and embarrassed using their nice washcloths to remove my makeup. I’m sure I’ve ruined many a fine Frette linen. I may or may not also be a little embarrassed of how much makeup I wear sometimes. I’ve been known to actually try and wash a washcloth out with soap before housekeeping sees it so they won’t judge the mess I make. I told you I’m weird.

That’s why the washcloth I found when I checked into the Seaport Hotel in Boston last night was such a thrill.

IT’S LIKE THEY KNOW ME.

They gave me a special washcloth just for removing my makeup! I don’t have to feel guilty about ruining another nice hotel cloth! And it’s black, so no one will see just how nasty my face really is! And yes, this is all very exclamation point-worthy!

In all my travels, in all the wonderful places I’ve stayed, I’ve never seen this. This black washcloth that tells guests, Alice in Wonderland-style, what we should do with it, is unique to me. And it’s an unexpected, little thing that just blew me away and that I’ll never forget.

Have you ever experienced a little thing while traveling or while patronizing a business that surprised and delighted you?

My Top Hotel Recommendations

I’ve had the pleasure of both working in and staying at some of the world’s most luxurious, fun and cool hotels. I’m constantly being asked for hotel recommendations, so I thought I’d compile a short list of some of my favorite properties. I’ve included not only the best hotels I’ve visited, but the hotels I dream of one day visiting.

 

From l to r: Milestone, Grand Floridian, Twelve Apostles, Clift, Venetian

 

My favorite hotels that I’ve been to are:

  1. The Milestone — This is where I had my first hotel job, even though I had no intention of ever working in hotels. But I had just run off to London with no job, nowhere to live and no money, so I had to take the first decent position I found. My first day on the job, I feel head over heels in love with the man who would become my husband. I also fell in love with the hospitality business and gained a new career path. But besides its having changed my life in a thousand ways, this hotel is also one of the most luxurious and impeccable properties in London. I highly recommend it to anyone who can afford it!
  2. The Grand Floridian — This hotel, on Disney World property just outside the gates to the Magic Kingdom, is the home of many a happy family vacation for me. We’ve spent Christmas holidays there, long weekends with extended family and more. It can’t be beat on service and location. And the property’s Victoria & Albert’s restaurant is one of the best luxury dining experiences in the world.
  3. The Twelve Apostles — Also a part of the group that owns the Milestone, the Twelve Apostles is a calm oasis in what is sometimes a crazy country. Located just south of Cape Town, South Africa, this hotel is a bit isolated. But that’s OK, because its distance from the crowds and other buildings allows for amazing views over the Atlantic Ocean and quiet gardens made for relaxing and soaking in the sun. This property is a great place to pamper yourself.
  4. The Clift – San Francisco is one of my favorite cities, and this is my favorite place to stay when I’m there. Just off Union Square, the Clift is very conveniently located. Plus, it’s ultra-hip. If you hit the famous Redwood Room bar, besides enjoying all the beautiful people, you can also enjoy exotic cocktails and some funky digital art. And the bedding and pillows at this hotel are the best anywhere.
  5. The Venetian — Having lived and worked in Las Vegas, people often ask me what my favorite hotel there is, and I always answer “The Venetian” with no hesitation. (I include the Tower and Palazzo as part of the Venetian.) What do I like about it? The rooms are spacious. The bathrooms are to-die-for, plus their blood orange-scented amenities are some of my favorite hotel amenities ever. The Canyon Ranch Spa on property is one of the best I’ve ever been to. The service is fantastic. And the Venetian is home to some of the best shopping and dining in Vegas. It’s everything I want, all packed into one (albeit MASSIVE) property.

Honorable mentions: Four Seasons Las Colinas, La Valencia, Windsor Court, Delano South Beach, St. Regis New York

 

From l to r: Oberoi Vanyavilas, Ritz, Paws Up, Trump International, Chateau Marmont

 

My dream hotels that I’m dying to visit are:

  1. The Oberoi Vanyavilas — This property in Rajasthan, India, is a combination of two of my dream trips: a visit to India and a safari-like vacation in tents near a game reserve. Plus, it’s got what’s supposed to be a very nice spa.
  2. The Ritz, Paris — I want to stay here because it’s the Ritz in Paris, and that’s enough. And I want to have a Bloody Mary at The Bar Hemingway.
  3. The Resort at Paws Up — Paws Up would be an adventure for the whole family. It’s a luxury resort in the middle of nowhere in Montana, right in the heart of the scenery I love most — majestic mountains, alpine fields, wild rivers and towering forests. I enjoy five-star experiences and spas and all that, but I also like rustic decor and camping and outdoor activities, so I think a vacation here would be the best of both worlds. I would want to visit at least twice — once in the summer and once in the winter — to take advantage of all the area has to offer.
  4. The Trump International — I want to stay here mainly because I want to see what the Trump level of service is like. I always enjoy observing and comparing the different types of services and accommodations offered by various hotel chains, and this is one of the few chains I’ve yet to experience.
  5. The Chateau Marmont – Like the Ritz, this is one of those places I want to stay on reputation alone. I want to have a wild party in a bungalow and get my days and nights mixed up and have famous people stumble in and out. I’d better try to make this happen before I get much older…

Honorable mentions: Le Château Frontenac, Hotel Cipriani, Savoy, Cap Juluca, Peninsula Hong Kong

There you have it. I’d love for you to comment and add your own favorite hotels or the properties you dream of visiting.

Ciao, Italy!

We left England after Boxing Day and headed to Italy. My parents have a house in Tuscany, so we joined them, my brother and his most awesome girlfriend, Anna.

I was pretty much wiped out by the time we arrived. The flight, dealing with the rental car, trying to cram too much luggage into a too small vehicle, driving nearly two hours in the dark through construction and windy mountain roads, not being able to see out of the car as I’m driving because the luggage is obstructing all my views — let’s just say I was a bit grumpy by the end of the day. And as we were entering the village where the house is, I was whining to Nick about how I didn’t want to have to meet new people and mingle.

You see, my family already has a pretty robust circle of friends in Italy. We know farmers, gardeners, chefs, real estate agents, business owners and more. And the night we arrived, my parents were having some people over for dinner, and one of our chef friends was cooking for us. It all sounded lovely on paper, but I was in no mood for socializing and meeting new people and staying up late. Plus, I looked like crap. (My visage doesn’t travel well.)

But, as it usually goes in Italy, within a few minutes of arrival, all was well. The exuberance and friendliness of Italians is contagious. There were some other British expats there with whom Nick and I had much in common, so it was nice visiting with them. And my kids, plus their Italian friend E, were running around like nuts. Although I was in a fog most of the evening, I still managed to take some pictures.

This is the sign at the entrance to our village. Please note that you are not allowed to bring your bugle to Piazze.

When we arrived, there were nibbles laid out for the weary travelers. I believe that someone told me one of these meats was beef nerve. I tried to pretend like I didn’t hear that.

There was also wine. Jug wine is not a bad thing in Italy. When you take your own grapes or your own olives to be processed into wine or oil, you get your finished product in big jugs like this. You can even buy it like this in grocery stores.

Here’s the chef, Carlo, at the stove, with a couple of staff from his restaurant to help him. And the cute little lady is his mother. We all just call her Mama. Mama speaks no English, but will speak to you in rapid-fire Italian as if you understand every word she says.

(Ladies, Carlo is single. And really cute. And a really good cook. And he wants to move to America. But you know how those Italian boys are attached to their mamas…)

The first course was some kind of soup. Made from something green. Carlo kept saying “chicory,” but since I’m from Louisiana, I only know about the chicory you drink. I didn’t just love this. It was pretty bitter.

Then came meatballs! I do love meatballs. So does LG. He couldn’t get enough of them. Which made Carlo and Mama love him.

The main course was some kind of braised turkey wrapped around plums and then stewed in some kind of liquid with walnuts.

The sides were some kind of greens and roasted potatoes. (Do you notice a pattern here? I really didn’t know what I was eating. I was too tired to pay much attention, and my Italian vocabulary isn’t as large as I’d like it to be.)

I love greens, regardless of preparation style, so I really didn’t care what they were about.

And the potatoes were simply roasted with olive oil, salt and pepper and rosemary. I know the words for all that, at least!

The boys were just a blur all night. Even though E knows some English, he hardly will speak it, so he’s a great Italian coach for my boys. The first words he taught them upon our arrival were “la spada” and “moschettiere.” Then they proceeded to play that violent and loud game ALL NIGHT LONG.

Attacking Anna was the highlight of the evening.

I tried to get a good picture of E, but did I mention that the boys were so wild that they were just a blur all evening?

Being a moschettiere is very hard work.

When Flapjack started eyeing the wine, I knew it was time for us to retire.

I think we fell into bed at about three in the morning. By then I was a zombie. And I knew I had a week full of wild nights like that to look forward to. Oh, mio dio

My Last England Post, I Swear, But I Have To Give London Its Props

My in-laws live in a semi-rural area on the south coast of England, but whenever we go over there, I always try to make my way up to London. I miss living there, so I like to go visit my favorite haunts and get my big city fix. Plus, it’s an easy, inexpensive train ride away. (Hooray for a decent public transportation infrastructure!)

This trip I took Flapjack with me. He, too, loves big cities and train rides. Plus, he’s a bit infatuated with mummies these days, to the point that he now knows how to go onto Google and do an image search for mummies. And if asked, he will happily explain to you the three ways that bodies can become mummies. I just happened to know that the British Museum has a superb mummy collection, and I thought he’d enjoy seeing it. When I first mentioned it to him a few weeks ago, he got shaky with excitement. When we got to the museum, I thought he’d want to dash straight to the Ancient Egypt section. Oh, no. He preferred to save it until last, because he wanted to delay the anticipation and hang on to that feeling. He is a weirdo. And understandably so, because he is my mini-me, personality-wise.

Here are a few pictures from our day trip to London.

It was cold outside, but we were warm and comfy in the train. He and I could ride the rails all day and be content to just stare out the windows.

I don’t think he breathed the entire time we were in the mummy rooms. He could hardly even speak. It was such a pleasure to see his excitement.

I swear he came up with this idea and pose on his own. He said “Take a picture of me being a hinomiff!” Which, OF COURSE, means hieroglyph. Duh.

We went shopping on Regent Street, which is where lots of the big, famous stores are. They decorate the street every year with a theme, and this year’s theme was Narnia. Those lights were nice, but I preferred the lights of nearby Carnaby Street. They were out of this world. (Ba-doom-tish.)

And as I always do when I go to London, we went to the Milestone Hotel. It’s a special place for me, as that’s where Nick and I first met. We sat in the bar and enjoyed our tea time. The look on his face in this picture might well be the same look on my face when I first spotted his dad from behind the hotel’s front desk. Sigh.

That’s it for England! (I think.) I’ve got a few stories to share about Italy next. I hope you’re enjoying this little travelogue!