MIA In L.A.

While the rest of the nation has been buried in bad weather this past week, I was cavorting in the sun and warm temps. I was in Vegas the first half of the week to speak at a conference. I always love heading back to Vegas, as it’s one of my favorite places I’ve lived. Plus, that’s where Flapjack was born, so it’s a sentimental destination for me.

On Wednesday, I came to L.A. I came to visit Anna and my brother (which, by the way, I always misspell as “bother,” such an obvious — yet fitting — slip). But I also came to talk business with my lovely friend Kadi. We’ve been working on a project together, and we had an meeting with someone about some ideas we’ve had and how we can take things further. The meeting went better than I imagined it could.

Oh yeah, and it’s in the 70s and sunny here. Life is good.

But all this traveling and work hasn’t left me much time to blog. I have, however, still been doing some writing. In fact, I just wrote a lesson for the prestigious Southern Girl Academy. I suggest you go read it. And I suggest you do what I say. And I suggest that in my absence, you catch up on all the other SGA posts and bookmark the site or add it to your feed.

Bye for now!

Mean Mirrors And Gut Punches

I regularly daydream about moving to southern California. I miss living in a desert and I miss the mountains. I have family there, and also friends. And I’m slightly addicted to Los Angeles.

Another reason I love SoCal is that it has such a vibrant and active blogging and social media community. I’ve been fortunate enough to connect with, and meet in real life, some of the awesome women in that community. One of those women is the gorgeous and funny Stefanie, who writes at Ooph.

This week, Stefanie’s doing a series on body image, and she asked me to write a guest post. I almost didn’t post about it here, becuase it’s kind of a touchy subject for me, but I decided I would like your take on the subject. What do you think — can a bad body image be a good thing?

Daily Worth’s Money Fix Series

These numbers scare me.

I’m back on Daily Worth today, talking about how owning a second home near the beach ain’t all it’s cracked up to be. Someone seriously called me “an inspiration” in the comments section. Go check it out.

I'm Getting Fixed!

I don’t remember how we were introduced, but a few months ago, I met Daily Worth. Daily Worth, which I will from here on out affectionately refer to as DW, is the baby of Amanda Steinberg and MP Dunleavey. Both Amanda and MP are writers/contributors for other projects, but they saw the need for a place where women could learn about money management and get sound financial advice. When I saw this quote on the About page, I was hooked:

“No one is going to fix financial inequity for women. We have to recognize our own self-worth, ask for higher salaries, invest more aggressively, and build our own wealth.”

Then one day, their daily email brought me this: Earn $50 Writing for Daily Worth

I was having an all-around very bad day, and was in a big funk about my family’s finances. Usually when I see one of those “write for us” applications, I hesitate, over-think it, and if I do end up applying, I’m insecure about it. But not that day. I plunged right in, immediately clicked the link to apply, and poured my emotions into a few short paragraphs.

And I got picked.

Now I find myself working with Carmen Wong Ulrich and writing for one of my favorite sites. And hopefully, I’ll find myself fixing our financial issues in the process. Pinch me, please.

The series starts today, and you can find my blog post here. I expect some people to totally slam me in the comments, but I also think I’ll find lots of support. And that’s really what it’s all about. It’s time for women to start helping other women know their own worth.

Thanks, DW, for giving me this opportunity.


Excuses, Excuses

Why yes, I do know it’s been over a month since I posted. And yes, I do know I promised more information on NOLA, and that some of you are planning upcoming trips to the Crescent City, and that without my valued advice YOUR WHOLE STINKING VACATION WILL BE RUINED AND TRAVEL INSURANCE DOES NOT COVER HAVING NOTHING TO DO BECAUSE YOUR BLOGGER FRIEND IS LAZY.

I get it.

But sheesh, have I ever been busy. It’s all Tobi’s fault. Ever since I started working with her, it’s been one grand idea, one huge project after another. Boy, are we having fun. But boy, does my head feel like it’s going to explode. I come home every day, exhausted, both mentally and physically. These days, I’m either running full speed ahead or at a dead stop. And unfortunately, my blog has suffered because of that.

So I guess there’s nothing like your boss saying she’s going to link to your blog from her widely-read, award-winning blog to get your rear in gear and get you posting again, right? Right. So as soon as Tobi broke the news to me, I 1) ran a find-and-replace to change any dirty words to “golly-gees” and “darn-tootins” and other Mayberry-approved phrases and 2) decided to post something right quick like.

Hopefully this will get me back in the writing groove. I’ll get more of my NOLA tips published soon. And in the meantime, if you’re hungry, please meet one of my most popular posts ever. You can thank me later.